When A Bold Fan = A Sexy Fan

I had a couple of interview sessions over the past few days. One was industry-related, and the other was personal. I'll talk about the personal one here. Talk of the industry-related one is posted on the blog of my website.

I went to Will Clark's PORNO BINGO Wednesday night. One of the members of the Anti-Violence Project (the beneficiary of the evening) was leaving. And since he is one of mine and many patrons favorite guest callers, I made it my business to be there that night. Throughout the night, I kept seeing this guy glance over at me. I thought he was cute. HOT actually. OK, since I've mentioned my attraction to it before, I'll confirm it now - he was tall and slim. After PORNO BINGO had wrapped, he was standing behind his friend, who was sitting on the bar stool next to me. This was the closest he stood near me all night, so now he really got a chance to investigate me. He then looked over at me, and said, "I know you from somewhere."

I said, "Really?". Although, I was sure I had seen him before, and admired how cute he was. I never suspected that he might feel the same about me. Plus, I did think for a moment that me might recognize me from one of my movies, but I put that thought out of my head until -- his friend then interjected and told him, "He's done movies."

When I saw the look of shock on his face, and his reply of "What?", to my surprise I knew that's how he knew me.

His friend then walked away, then he sat on the bar stool. His first question was, "Which one?"

I told him that I did 6, so I threw a title out at him. Something in my mind said to say "Dillon:The One." When I said that, he lit up, and realized that's where he saw me.

We talked for a little while, and even teased each other at one point about me going home with him. At least I hope it was teased, because if not, I should be kicking myself all these days later for not taking the opportunity to wrap myself around that tall, slim frame. But before he left he asked me, "If I give you my number, will you call me tomorrow?"

I told him, "Sure". And just to put us both on the same footing, I gave him my number as well. I hate when there's a mutual attraction, but one person is such a dumb shit, that they want to play games and not give up their number. And I'm not one of those game players. I'll admit sometimes, I'll be so smitten that I'll forget my manners and not give mine out. But that's not very often.

He texted me later that night telling me how it was nice to meet me. Unfortunately, I didn't get the text until very late that night, so I didn't respond to it until the next morning with my apologies.

Although, the plan was for me to call him, he called me instead. At first, being that I was at work he thought I was busy, because I seem distracted. The truth is I seemed distracted because I was taken aback by his phone call. We made plans to meet up that afternoon in Union Square.

My first thought in seeing him in daylight, was WOW! Let's just say daylight is such a beauty enhancer for some people. And to make my need to practice restraint more necessary, he had a pretty nice ass in those blue jeans of his.

He asked me a lot of questions about the porn industry. I won't say exactly what. But what I will say is that he asked the questions that many of you would want to ask if you were to go out with me, but wouldn't because you would think it would kill the mood. I'm glad he was bold enough to take that chance. Plus, being that I pride myself on my honesty, his search for the truth only made him more attractive. And since we're both keeping our options open, I'll say he's more attractive not just as a possible lover, but also as a possible friend to chill with. I like having friends I can be totally with about myself and the way I see the world around me.

OK, I'll cave. I will tell you a couple of the things we talked about.

One thing he asked about was about me maintaining a relationship in this industry. My response is the same as when I first started my personal blog, and got some flack for it. I pretty much said that from the time I got in this business, I always had a rule regarding how to handle my relationships. This may be a business, but for this business, you do have sex. An act that is usually shared between, and held sacred by many romantic partners. With that in mind, the decision to be in this business has to be one between you and your partner. If your partner doesn't want it, then you either leave the industry or end the relationship. Now if you have a great relationship, I think it would be totally foolish to throw it away, just so you can fuck for the camera. I mean how selfish can you be? And how dense are you to think that you can't do anything else in this world? After all, leaving the adult industry is not the end of the world. We all have to at some point, and that's a definite if you're a model.

One of the other things we discussed is what draw us to each other. I asked him what drew him to me, and he told me at first he thought I was cute. Then when he realized who I was, he remembered how turned on he was by watching me in my scene with Dillon. He said when he saw me get fucked while on my stomach (which showed my ass), his cock went straight up in the air.

I wish I thought to show him the promotional video of myself that I made and put on my iPod. Maybe I could have seen a nice pup tent in those jeans. But then again, that would have been me teasing myself way too much.

He also mentioned how when he saw me getting fucked while I'm on my back, he had to jerk off. And seeing me taking Dillon's load only made him shoot his load as well.

Now you know with all the images he put in my head, had it not been for the fact, that fucking in broad daylight in Union Square Park would get one arrested, I would have definitely dropped trou, and let him have his way with me for all the park goers to see. But of course, one reason it's definitely illegal is because the children in the park would need a crash course in the facts of life over the sight of that. Some other explanation than, "Kid, when people get horny, people fuck. Plain and simple."

Knowing that he saw me at one of my raunchiest moments actually made it a little hard for to come up with questions to ask him. But I was so taken by his boldness, honesty, and appreciation for my honesty, that I did ask him is there a possibility of us hanging out again. And he said, "Yes. Definitely." So for now, I think there may be another cool dude to add to my roster of friends.

B.U2B. FREE,

Tré Xavier of Tre-X.com

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